Frequently asked questions

Q:  If the bride's parents are divorced, who handles the invitations and plans the wedding?
A:  The bride's mother.

Q:  Does the formal invitation to a church wedding require an answer?
A:  No.

Q:  Are wedding invitations sent to those in mourning?
A:  Yes.

Q:  How are envelopes of invitations addressed formally?
A:  No abbreviations except for Mr., Mrs., Jr., Dr., etc.

Q:  Is it proper to use "and family" on invitation envelopes?
A:  No.  Separate invitations should be mailed to adult sons and daughters. Small children's names should be listed on the inner envelope with only first names under the parents' names.

Q:  How should the invitation be inserted into the envelope?
A:  The invitation is folded with wording outside and placed in the inner envelope (unsealed) with the folded edge down. The inner envelope is placed in the outer envelope facing the flap.

Q:  Who provides the wedding and reception?
A:  Normally this is provided by the parents of the bride.

Q:  What does the bride give the bridesmaids?
A:  A small lasting gift such as a piece of jewelry.

Q:  What does the groom present to his bride as a gift?
A:  Usually a personal gift such as jewelry.

Q:  How are the wedding bands engraved?
A:  Inside the band, first with the bride's initials, then the groom's and then the date of the wedding.

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